Originally Posted by Sven Lebowitz
If I may weigh in on the situation...
- Every time you see her, tell her how nice she looks. You are thinking it, just tell her. Don't go with the "You are hot" or anything remotely sexual. Go with a specific thing, like "Your hair looks nice", "I love that perfume", or "You are so pretty." I know that is a difficult thing to say, because it puts your feelings out there, but girls like to hear that. They take time to look nice, and being told they are successful is key.
- Ask her if she would mind if you hold her hand. Again it seems corny, but it shows her you want to move to that step and you respect her enough to ask her. Same goes for giving her a kiss.
- When the kiss time comes, don't go overboard on the first one. If she likes it, you will know and you can increase in both duration and intensity.
You are in prime position right now. Now make your move and be confident and respectful.
You're spot on with the first part. I'd think saying something nice would come easily but it doesn't.
Second part is what i think i'm going to go with when i try take her out to dinner.
Originally Posted by nmboltsfan
Uh, why are we using football euphamisms? Baseball is so much more clear.
Joshie- have you gotten to first base yet? You have to get there before you even get ready to take 'er home. I mean, usually.
So many people seem to have variations on the baseball ones. I think the Football ones work better.
Originally Posted by chargertom
Go ask her out for dinner. Tell her you want to talk over the details of the Gold Coast trip. Maybe plan some sort of itinerary.
Are you going skydiving with her? Man, talk about a bond if you did. Wow.
We talked about it all last night and sort of said when asking her it was so i could see her before she went to Byron Bay.
She is doing the skydiving far away. Byron Bay is like a couple hours away from the Gold Coast. Going with her "best friend" since he was the one who bought it for her birthday. She doesn't seem too keen on it but doesn't want to waste it.